Text: Vulnerability And Trust Q: Hi. B: And to you, good day. Q: I too, have a question about some fears that are being. B: All right! But do speak up and share with all. Q: I have three fears that I. B: Oh, three fears! Nicely ordered. Q: Maybe it's one fear. B: All right. Q: Anyway, they have been running my life, and I'm really sick of it. And I'd like some help to overcome it and resolve it as best as I can. B: That have been doing what with your life? Q: That have been running my life. B: Running it? Q: That I've allowed to run my life. B: Oh, all right. Well, what do you prefer to be? What do you prefer to do? Do you know? Q: Yes. B: Well, what is it? Q: I prefer not to feel this way. I prefer to. Uh, uh, uh. B: All right, all right. But we did not ask you what you don't prefer, I asked you what you do prefer. Q: I prefer to feel more empowered. B: More empowered! All right. Q: I was married and I recently ended a committed relationship. And the same feelings keep coming up, and it's a problem for me. The first one is a feeling of being abandoned. B: Abandoned! Q: . irrespective of who ends the relationship. B: All right. Q: And also I realize that I would like to be able to surrender more to the person that I'm committing to. B: All right. Q: And also I have a fear of being vulnerable, letting my inner child be vulnerable. And I feel. B: Define vulnerability. Q: Expressing my deep inner needs. B: Deep inner needs. Why are you afraid to express your deep inner needs? You have not given me your full definition of vulnerability. What is your full definition of vulnerability? In other words, when you express these deep inner needs, what do you believe will be the result of that expression? Q: I'll be hurt and abandoned -- left. B: In other words, you have a negative definition of vulnerability. Q: Criticized; be told I'm wrong. B: In other words, you have a negative definition of vulnerability. Q: Yes. B: All right. Now, would you prefer to have a positive definition of vulnerability? Q: Very much so. B: Oh, all right. I can suggest one -- you don't have to take it -- its just my suggestion. However! To me, vulnerability is the willingness to be open to All That is in full and total trust. The willingness to be open to All That Is in full and total trust is what you are talking about when you say "surrendering." It is actually taking control. It is not giving up control; it is taking control. That is true surrender. The idea simply becomes effortless, and that is why many of you think you are actually giving up control, because to you, the only reason you feel you're in control is when you are expending effort. Q: Yes. B: Therefore, when you open up in complete vulnerability -- and understand that if you are opening up to All That Is, then you are connecting to All That Is, to Infinite Creation -- by opening up to all of it, you are connecting into it. And if you are connecting into the Infinite Creation, then you are connecting to infinite strength, infinite power, eternal power. And if you are willing to trust it in a positive way, you will then flow that infinite power through you every time you are willing to open up all the way. That is vulnerability, that is power, that is self-empowerment. That is surrender, and that is control. It is all boiled down to the one word -- trust. Trust. The mechanism of trust, which is the absolute knowingness that you exist for a reason. And therefore, with that perspective and that attitude, you recognize that you deserve to exist in the manner you have determined you would prefer to exist. For no other reason other than because you say so. That's it; that's all you need. Just say: "I deserve it. Why? Because I exist. That's why. Because I have been given the capability to say and to know I deserve it. That's why; I don't need another reason." And when you understand that, you will understand you are connected to everything. And when you are connected to everything, you will know it is not possible for you to be abandoned. Now, an individual in your society shared with us a very creative interpretation of one of your language's words. This individual recognized that your word "a-l-o-n-e" could be pronounced "alone" or "all one." Which do you prefer? Q: All one. B: All right. Then if you know that being "alone" is being "all one" you can never be abandoned. Because you are always connected to the infinity of creation itself by being fully open to it and allowing it to flow through you. It may only be the definitions you are applying to your relationships -- the expectations you have been taught to think ought to be there, rather than letting the relationship be what it is for -- that is creating the difficulty you are experiencing. For the only difficulty usually comes from the type of definition you have about a circumstance. There is no circumstance, in and of itself, that is inherently difficulty causing. Only your perspective and definition of the circumstance can cause difficulty in your life. Q: Yes. B: Understand? Q: Yes. B: Does this assist you? Q: Yes. I've also chosen to grow through channeling, and I'm learning to experience as a clear vocal channel. B: Oh, all right. Q: My question is: how can these -- how might these issues color or filter my clear channeling process? B: They can color it if you are not willing to trust yourself. Because if you are not willing to trust yourself, then in that sense, you are not allowing yourself to be a clear channel. Because you do not think of yourself as complete, as capable, as deserving. Q: Yes. B: But whatever you are experiencing in terms of your agreement to experience that energy. Q: Yes. B: . is all for the purpose of allowing you, first of all, to choose how you wish to define yourself. For the whole idea is to serve you as well. If the channeling doesn't serve the channel, if the channel is not allowed to be fully who the channel needs to be, prefers to be, then the channel cannot be of service to anyone else. It would be pointless. Q: Yes. B: So again, it is simply an issue of trust. Understand? Q: Yes. B: Remember, as we have shared with many individuals: you do not need a special reason in order to know you deserve what you prefer. If you exist, then obviously you deserve to exist. Otherwise you wouldn't. Infinite Creation is very clear about that. Q: Yes. B: If you exist, Infinite Creation must obviously believe you deserve to. Treat yourself with the same respect. Why not? Understand? Q: Yes. B: And be a part of the infinite whole: be the infinite whole -- your version of the Infinite Whole. That is what all the parts are: different versions of the whole idea. You are no less that idea than anyone else. Or you wouldn't exist. There are no incomplete creations, no extraneous and pointless ones. Q: Hmmm. B: Understand? Q: Yes. B: If you exist, by definition you must fit as you are -- not that you can't change. But you must fit as you are, or you wouldn't exist. So lighten up on yourself. All right? Q: I got it. B: And when you lighten up on yourself, you will be enlightened. And your energy will accelerate upward. And your vulnerability will become power. Understand? B: Yes. B: Well, thank you very much. Q: Thank you. B: At this timing, you may all enjoy a short break. We will resume contact in approximately ten to fifteen of your minutes.

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