Text: Treating Yourself With Respect and Love Q: I'd like to ask you: what is it like on your planet? B: Oh, very nice. Thank you . Oh! It is very green, very park-like. Very few buildings, very few structures. Most of the individuals upon our world exist in spacecraft at any given time. We need very few buildings, so everything is very green. Not unlike your world, but very few buildings. Our sky is also a little more greenish. Our star, our sun, is more greenish-yellow than yellow like your own. Q: What are your people like? Um. B: We are, of average, five feet of your height. White/whitish-gray skin coloration. Somewhat wide oriental-style eyes. Very large black pupil. Very slender, looking much like oriental, as you would understand that idea, although different. We are always -- always, always -- extremely happy. Does that assist you? Q: Yes, it does. Thank you. B: Thank you very much. Q: Good evening. B: Good evening. Q: I have just become associated with a friend of mine who has had an experience with some Pleiadians. And she's written a manuscript about it. And my question is: is it an appropriate time to get that published and. ? B: If it is, it will be. Q: Okay. B: We cannot really be of much assistance in this area to you, except that if an individual is following what excites them the most, then that is what will ensure it will have the greatest impact. And it will always unfold in the way it needs to, to carry the greatest impact. To some degree there is assistance being given by those individuals about whom your friend is writing, but it is done in a very non-interferive way. For the decisions must be up to your friend as well. Q: Okay. B: But we would recommend that your friend continue to follow what excites. And the excitement itself will make a difference, regardless of anything that is published. Q: Okay, thank you. I have another question. B: All right. Q: I have been associated for several years with two different individuals, one of whom is here locally and another in Texas. And I guess my question is: where is the psychic link between us? B: Where?!? It's within you. Q: Okay. B: How do you mean your question? It is not translating. Q: Uh... where did our relationship originate, or.? B: Oh, my, my! Everywhere. Anywhere. Nowhere. Originate. we understand what you very often mean in your world when you say, "Where did we originate from?" But it is a rather arbitrary idea, since everything exists simultaneously. Any given life may seem to allow one of those paths to stand out more than another, and so that path may seem to be the idea of an origin. But to many other lives in many other systems, if they are very strongly linked to what you are doing now on your Earth system, then they could just as equally be saying, "Well yes, I originate on some planet somewhere called Earth." The idea is to simply recognize that in any given situation where you do feel a strong connection to different ideas, it is the essence of the idea that you simply need to live out, whether you have a label for it or not. Now, in this way, connections can be known. But the easiest way to understand any reason for these connections is to simply allow yourself to recognize what you are learning by being involved with these other individuals. You follow me? Q: Mhmm. B: What is it you are learning? Q: That is a good question. I don't know. B: Do you have a good answer? Q: No, I don't. B: Yes, you do. We will allow you to think about it for a moment. times up! What are you learning about yourself in these interactions? Q: Well, perhaps some of my weaknesses and some of my strengths. B: All right. You are learning the ideas about yourself that you do not prefer, and allowing yourself to recognize the ones you do. In no way does this mean you have to judge or invalidate those portions that you are calling weaknesses, for they are not truly weaknesses. They are simply choices. You are learning whether or not you continue to prefer certain choices over others. Is it allowing you to learn to stand for what you know to be true for you? Q: Perhaps. B: Perhaps! All right. Do you enjoy the interaction? Q: Usually. B: Usually. When do you not? Q: I suppose when I choose not to. B: All right. But why do you choose not to at certain times? For what reasons? What types of scenarios allow you to feel that you must choose to not enjoy? Q: I don't know. B: Yes, you do. You can think of not one example? Q: I don't know. I keep putting myself into positions that I feel like I shouldn't be in. B: Then why are you there? Q: That's a good question. I don't know. B: All right. Where would you rather be? Q: Perhaps there, but with a different viewpoint. B: Ah! Very good. Being where you are at any given moment with the viewpoint that represents who you prefer to be: that is what allows you to find yourself somewhere else rather than simply being, quote/unquote, stuck in what appears to be a repetitive cycle of events you don't enjoy. Now, do you understand that all circumstances are neutral, and don't necessarily mean anything on the surface -- until you supply the meaning? Q: Absolutely. B: All right. Then in those circumstances, if you find yourself not enjoying them, why do you choose to apply a meaning that allows you to extract lack of enjoyment? Q: Well I don't know. It's easer to see after the fact than it is during the experience sometimes. B: That is true, and that is because many times you want to have the spontaneous experience before you have the analytical awareness of what is going on and why you are doing it. So if it comes down to that in many given situations, then you simply know that by living through the experience, you will by the end of the experience know all you need to know about why it was there, and how it can serve you. You follow me? Q: Yes. Thank you. B: Now you have also said that there are circumstances wherein you feel like you would rather be somewhere else. If you now know that there are circumstances that you do not want to be in, can you not describe in any way, shape or form, one of those circumstances? Is there one that seems to occur more often than not? One style of circumstance you do not prefer, that you feel you continually create? Q: Mhmm, there is. B: Well? Q: It's generally a position of. where I feel somewhat stupid over a particular circumstance. B: Stupid. Q: . lack of knowledge or. B: Oh, lack of knowledge. Q: Yeah. B: In other words, you feel less. Q: Right. B: You are therefore invalidating yourself. Do you not understand that at any given moment you are a perfect representation of whatever it is you are being at that moment? And that you will not become more perfect when you change; you will only become perfect in a different way? Q: Okay. B: Do you understand that? Q: Yes, I do. B: Then there is no reason to berate yourself in any situation for being the perfect you you are being in that situation. You follow me? Q: Yes I do. B: There is no reason to un-equalize yourself with those with whom you interact. Then you are not being of service to them: you are not allowing them to be of service to you. You are simply invalidating yourself, rather than treating yourself with respect and love, as you were created. You follow me? Q: Mhmm. B: If you are going to doubt yourself at all, why not give yourself the benefit of the doubt? Q: Ha ha, okay. B: 'Tis up to you. You do not have to. But if you prefer to do so, simply allow us to remind you that there is no reason at all in creation why you should not, or cannot. Q: Okay. Thank you. B: Thank you very much. Sharing.

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