Text: Everything Happens For A Reason (Bashar) Q: You were talking about blending polarities. B: Yes. Q: And I feel that I've experienced that in the physical, in the, well. B: Yes, yes, yes. Q: Between myself and another person, as embodying two polarities. Someone who was in my immediate physical environment for quite some time. There was a lot of tension, and also a strong attraction that, over that period of time, became less. B: All right.. Q: ... and became more... B: Yes. Q: . of a healed situation. B: Yes. Q: But that person is no longer in my immediate environment. Since that time I've dreamt about that person, and thought about that person, and have become more healed, I feel. B: Our perception is that this other individual represents a direct counterpart energy to you - which means you both come from the same soul. You follow me? Q: Yes. And. B: You gave yourself, as a soul, the opportunity of interactions between two of its fragmented counterparts, so that those counterparts could explore the idea of the polarity between you, and integrate it. As you integrated it, it became "healed," and also at the same time, unnecessary for the continuance of that physiological proximity. Q: I still feel there's some kind of a longing feeling on my part. B: It does not have to be a longing; you are simply not believing that there is still a connection, but there always is. Q: Um... am I able to ask if there will be a physical contact again? B: There will be a physical connection, but you will find that it most likely will come through another physiological being. Now, when that happens, you will not care - because it will feel exactly like the right connection to make. And you will recognize the energy therein, that represents the growth and the integration you have made. Q: So there will not be an interaction with that person again - in a physical way. B: There may be. We find that it is, let us say, unlikely at this time, as we perceive your energy. However, do recognize that should there be an interaction "again," you have changed. They will have changed; it is not the same person, anyway - literally. You follow me? Q: Yeah. B: Relax. You will attract what you need to attract to reflect what you are willing to recognize within yourself, as the degree of completeness that you are. That individual may be now serving other individuals in reflecting many of the similar ideas you share with them. Therefore you may allow more of an opportunity for another physical individual to - let us say - fill the space you now occupy. You follow me? Q: Yes. I. I. I. I understand that in the future this situation is resolved already. B: It is resolved right now. Q: I guess I need to reconcile the idea that I know it's resolved, with the idea of the feeling that, no matter how close I get to feeling that it's resolved, it still feels like I get. B: What, in your imagination, would be representative of a resolution? Q: I guess it would. B: Do not guess. What would represent, to you, a resolution? Q: A perfect communication. B: All communications are perfect - for what they are. What is your definition of the communication? Q: Both parties would understand the same idea. B: Why is that necessary for perfect communication? Q: I don't know; I just feel that there's some kind of a gap between. B: A difference there may be; a difference there always will be. There can be a greater degree of synchronous harmony between you. But in this way, recognize that unity comes from the granting of validity and equality to the diversity between you. Letting them be who they are, and allowing yourself to be who you are - totally and completely - will instill perfect communication between you, in the sense that you mean it. If you make it that they have to change in order to meet your definition of perfect communication, then you are never going to be communicating with them; but only with your idea of your expectation of what you think they should become. Q: And that's why I find thoughts of this person somehow disturbing. B: Yes. Let them be who they are; and recognize that every relationship you have - no matter what the definition of that relationship - serves you. Let it serve you for what it is - not what you think it should be, or should have been. It is what it is for a reason; let it be so, and then you will recognize you have never had anything but perfect communication. You follow me? Q: Yes. B: That, paradoxically, is when you allow them the greatest opportunity to be back in touch with you. But do, once again recognize, it will not be the same person, because you are not the same. And you can only interact with that which is on the same level as you - and vice versa. Q: You mean it may be the same body, but a different person? B: Yes. A person is not who or what you actually are. Your personality - that which you recognize as the person - is, in a sense, an artificial construct of the consciousness. When the consciousness changes the idea of itself - whether the outside sign symbol remains looking the same or not - it is not the same person; it is not the same idea. It presents itself in a different way. Have you not had experiences with individuals, wherein you recognized they had changed greatly, that they truly seemed to be a different personality? Q: Yes. B: They are - literally - not the same person. They have changed the idea of themselves within their consciousness. Now, you will find that there are civilizations wherein the changing of that idea of the self will actually physically change the representational body. It simply does not occur that way as much in your society. But it is not the same body - regardless of what he or she looks like to you. Recognize, therefore, that if you wish to see anything change in your reality, change yourself. Then you will exist on the level that those individuals - that that portion of those individuals - already exist upon as well. That is what makes other individuals seem to have changed; it is that you are now on a different level, and see the aspect of them that is also on that same level. So it is a different personality. But still a part of the same whole soul, so you will always "recognize" them as the same "person," so to speak. You follow me? Q: I think so. I'm a hundred percent sure. B: Oh, all right. Q: Uh, it could be this particular body, or a different body, that I will come in contact with? B: Yes. In any event, it will not matter who or what it is, because it all will be different anyway. Q: Right. B: Whatever you change - the only things that can interact with you are those that are representative of the level that you have changed to. Whether it presents itself in the same body, or not, makes no difference; it is not the same. Q: So that's a question that I should just let go of, because it's irrelevant. B: It is not irrelevant. But it may not apply to the reality you are becoming. 'Tis not the same thing. Q: I can't know why it doesn't make any difference who it is. B: All the differences in the sense that you mean it, are determined by you thinking that there is a difference. You apply - once again - the meaning to the neutral symbol. The meaning you give it defines the difference that you perceive. When you allow yourself to recognize everything is for a reason, then you will allow yourself to recognize that anything else that occurs in your life is also for a reason, and does not have to appear to be exclusive of any thing else that has ever happened - but can be inclusive. You do follow me? Q: Yes. B: Does that assist you? Q: Yes, it does. B: Thank you very much. Q: I have... can I ask one other question? B: Yes. Q: It's concerning... I feel tired most of the time. Q: That is only because you are fighting your own ecstasy. It is very tiring to fight the happiness that you know you deserve. Q: Is there any way that I could... that you could assist me in knowing... I try to relax. I tell myself to. B: Try to relax! No wonder you are tired! Trying is not relaxing; trying is tiring. So if you have been trying instead of relaxing, it is not surprising you are tired. For trying is tiring. Unless, of course, that is what excites you in life - is to do trying. Then you will not tire of trying. However! All you need to do is recognize what are the things that do relax you? What are the things you do enjoy? What are the things that excite you? Then do them - trusting that doing them will still bring the support you need, in whatever way, shape or form you need it. Trust. Trust, trust, trust. Trust. All right? Q: All right. B: Thank you.

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