Text: Obligations and Beliefs Q: What happens when something really excites you, and yet you have obligations to do things, which don't? B: Obligations? Who creates those obligations? Q: It's a co-creation between you and the other individual. B: Yes, well? You can change those obligations. You can. You can still function within your integrity if you simply recognize something is not your vibration. Then simply, utilizing your integrity, rearrange the things that you are doing so that you do not have to do those things anymore. You can also understand that many times, when you allow yourself to act upon your excitement and begin to do what excites you the most, many of the things that previously may have seemed like obligations, may come back in different forms that will not seem like obligations. Q: Okay. B: You follow me? Q: Mhmm. B: Trust. All right? Q: Uh huh. Okay, also another question about relationships. B: Yes! Q: I've found, this past six months or so, that I've been in tune with many individualsŠ B: Yes. Q: Š and feel a lot of love for all of them. B: Yees? So? Q: Well, it's great. The problem that I haveŠ B: Problem! The what?!? Q: Š situationŠ B: You feel love for all these individuals, and you have a problem? (Other): On this planet, yes. B: On your planet, yes. Q: Yes. Dealing with the set standards of the societyŠ B: Set - standardsŠ of - the - so - ci - e - ty. I see. More things that you believe are written in steel. Q: Well, I feel that they have burned into me since I was born. B: So? If you know that that is the only reason you are following them -- then because you can have the conception of why they are there, you are automatically released from them. Otherwise you wouldn't be able to conceive that there is something else. Q: Okay. B: The perspective -- being able to see that there is another way - is, in and of itself, the release. Because you have to be, in a sense, outside -- or beyond -- the idea you think you are trapped within, in order to see that idea. Q: Right. It seems difficult toŠ B: Seems difficult. Another unwritten law. Recognize that many of the things in your society that you base your reasons upon for not doing what you prefer to do, have no more substance than the reasons themselves. "Well, I'm doing this, or not doing this, because of this." But this is just as vague, nebulous and insubstantial as the reasons. You are only creating more reasons. You follow me? Q: Sort of. B: There is only one fundamental reality for everyone; the fact that you exist -- period. Now, we do recognize that you have, in a sense, made some overall agreements. But you can also recognize that to a very great extent, your ability to even recognize that there can be transformation into something you would prefer, is an indication to you that it is probably all right, within the mass consciousness agreement, to be able to do so. Q: Mhmm. B: You follow me? Q: Yes, that would be nice. B: It is nice. "Would be" keeps it in the future. Q: Okay. That's nice. B: Thank you. Then have a good time. Q: I still feel like -- to be truly in line with myselfŠ B: Yes? As if you could be out of alignment. Q: Seemingly. B: Did you hear me? Q: Yes. B: What does that mean to you? Q: It means that I'm not integrating all the parts of myself. B: As if you could be out of alignment with yourself. Q: Okay. What I mean is to be the vibrationŠ B: Yes? Q: Š that I might desire(?). B: If you are not that vibration, how do you even know that such a vibration exists? (Another): Then from whence cometh the sensation of being out of alignment with oneself? B: By creating the vibration with your belief. By believing that it's possible to be out of alignment. By believing that your imagination, your conceptual ability, is not as real as your physical reality. By continuing to separate them into two different things instead of one. I have conceived of it; therefore this is what is. I am that I am. Whatever you can conceive of, you are -- at the moment you conceive of it. Well, you can have many different conceptions. One after another. Choose which one you prefer, and act like it -- knowing that the one you prefer is what your reality will reflect. And trusting that everything in your reality, therefore, from that point forward, is a reflection of what you prefer to be. Do not judge that it is not. Q: Well, I feel like I can't live in this environment and be what I prefer to be. B: You are missing the point. If you simply take it for granted -- right now, right now -- that the idea you prefer is in effect right now, if you exhibit trust to that effect, then you will begin to allow what is going on in your life to be a part of the idea you prefer to be. So that, at whatever rate you are comfortable with, bit by bit, all of the reflections that you have that now -- or used to -- seem so negative, will begin to transform into more positive reflections. Stop judging where you are, so that it can function as a stepping- stone to take you where you want to be. If you judge where you are, you can't use it to go on. Q: Oh, okay. B: You follow me? Q: Mhmm. B: Everything you have ever done in this life, or any other life, has gotten you where you are. If you invalidate any portion of it, you can't keep going -- because you are removing a stepping-stone by invalidating it. Let what is happening be what is going to get you to where you want to be. And the sooner you have that attitude, the sooner it will seem like that is what is happening. Remember: every situation is fundamentally neutral until you supply the meaning. No situation has built-in meaning; the meaning comes from you. Q: Okay. B: Thank you. Q: What happens when one individual is benefiting from the relationship and the other is not? B: You are always benefiting. If it is your choice to benefit from a relationship by being shown an idea you do not prefer, then you have benefited. Because that idea has given you an opportunity to decide what you do prefer. Once again, you are choosing to look at the situation as something that doesn't benefit you. So you are putting the negative connotation and meaning into a neutral situation. Then, once you understand that this is a situation you don't want to be, or you don't want toŠ then you can turn it around and recognize that it is giving you an opportunity to decide what you do want to be. Q: Mhmm. B: Then you will recognize that the situation has served you, and it will immediately lose its negative impact in your life. It will slide right through you. It is that simple -- that is what you do not believe. Q: Mhmm. B: It is that simple. You follow me? Q: Mhmm. B: Thank you.

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