Monogamy & polygamy
[1989] THE TRUTH ABOUT SEXUAL MONOGAMY by James W. Prescott, Ph.D.
Quotes
"Christian missionaries to Africa
condemned polygamy, with the result that great numbers of women became "socially
superfluous". Many went to the cities and became prostitutes. Missionaries
to North America had a similar effect when, discovering the informal family
arrangements between many white settlers and native American women, they accused
the natives of immorality and prostitution. Protestant women in pioneering
settlements adopted the missionary position - or rather, supported the
missionaries' point of view - with the result that Indian women lost the status
and respect they had enjoyed from the earlier white settlers. Interracial
marriages died out, while prostitution flourished".--Love for Sale: a global
history of prostitution by Nils Ringdal
It is the variable of carrying the infant on the
body of the mother/caretaker in primitive cultures that is so strongly
predictive (80%) of peaceful and non-violent cultures which includes lack of
abuse of infants and children.
When the infant physical
affectional variable was combined with permitted pre-marital sexuality my
prediction of peaceful or violent cultures rose to 100% of the 49 cultures where
this information was available. Further, these cultures were matrilineal where
78% of the nine cultures that also had information on extramarital sexuality
also permitted extramarital sexuality.
The ultimate human spiritual-sexual
state, however, can only be realized when the human female (whose brain is
uniquely designed for the spiritual-sexual state) is completely free to express
her sexual love according to her own terms which means multiple sexual
relationships without fear of male reproach, control or violence. For this to
occur the developing brain of the infant/child must be encoded and programmed
with pleasure (affectional bonding) for the neural circuits to develop to make
possible the spiritual-sexual state later in life. Unfortunately, just the
opposite is happening in most human cultures of today where infant/day care
centers, e.g., provide little or no affectional bonding with anyone.
If the human male was wise (which
he is not) he would realize the significance of affectional bonding throughout
life and that he would be an extraordinary beneficiary of this new
affectional-sexual-spiritual path.
Although, THE TAO and TANTRIC
BUDDHISM represent the most enlightened of the patriarchal cultures,
particularly, with respect to human sexuality they are significantly limited
because of their subordination of women to men and their conceptual errors
concerning the truth of female spiritual-sexual energy. The extraordinary
insights of Wilhelm Reich is partially corrective to these errors, e.g. "Sexually
awakened women, affirmed and recognized as such, would mean the complete
collapse of the authoritarian ideology" (see "The Mass Psychology of
Fascism" and "The Function of The Orgasm").
The correct view is that human
sexual-spiritual development must follow the path of the feminine and that is
why Teilhard de Chardin stated: "Woman is, for man, the symbol and
personification of all the fulfillments we look for from the universe... The
feminine is the most formidable of the forces of matter." (The Evolution of
Chastity.) [1989] THE
TRUTH ABOUT SEXUAL MONOGAMY by James W. Prescott, Ph.D.