I am still trying to figure out what you are trying to say, and on 
rereading the posts I keep coming back to this;
You wrote;
>  an aether that creates gravity can't have gravity it's self or one
>  that exists in space can't create the space it is in.
Are you saying that somewhere I or someone else said that Aether CREATES 
space?  I don't recall saying that or reading it.  That's much to 
profound for my ability to comprehend, though if you read Schappellers 
definitions/claims at http://keelynet.com/gravity/searl3.htm ;
>  Space or "Space Fabric" - in this context means the 3 dimensional 
>  medium which SUPPORTS matter, force fields and radiant energy. It 
>  does NOT mean specifically interplanetary space, but INCLUDES it. 
>  Ether or "Aether" - another name for space, but implies a different 
>  concept in that space is regarded as the absence of matter, and ether 
>  is regarded as the existence of a space medium having specific 
>  properties.........................ref : Lodge Theory. 
>  Inertial Mass - comparison of amounts of matter by examination of the 
>  inertial properties using the equation: P = m a where P = force 
>  required to accelerate inertial mass (m) at an acceleration of value 
>  a. 
>  Gravitational Mass - comparison of amount of matter. G, the force on 
>  it, is a gravitational field.     
I agree with this summation, space INCLUDES aether in all its 
manifestations.
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